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Suggestions for growing closer to Jesus

Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ Jesus,

We are now at the First Sunday of Lent and entering the first full week of this time of penance and spiritual growth before Holy Week and Easter! If you have not taken some time to consider how you can grow closer to Jesus with the help of His Grace or if you have thought about it, but need more ideas, here are several suggestions that may be helpful to you this Lent:

1. Ask for God’s will to be done in your life and then let Him lead. The best way to grow is to reflect on your life, talk it over with God and then follow Him. We need our Lord‘s grace to move forward in love with Him – so be sure to talk over your life with Him!

2. Go to the Sacrament of Confession. This is the Sacrament of Conversion and the Sacrament that brings about wonderful change in the soul. Remember the five elements of a good Confession: A. Examine your conscience; B. Have true contrition for having sinned against God; C. Make a firm resolution to not sin anymore; E. Con-fess all you sins, particularly mortal sins in number and kind; E. Complete the penance assigned by the priest.

3. Go to daily Holy Mass whenever possible. The Real Presence of our good Lord Jesus in the Holy Eucharist is the center of our Catholic Faith. Try to be with Him as much as possible!

4. Examine your interior life. Our Lord would very much like us to do this on a daily basis: what are my thoughts, feelings and desires? Then share what is in the heart with Jesus and Mary. We also need to look for our faults. In what areas of life is the heart resistant to the Will of God or the teachings of His Catholic Church?

5. Pray the Rosary (if possible in the Church) and pray with a greater conviction of God’s personal love for you. We all have need for more contact with God, especially with how busy we let our lives become. Mary teaches us how to be open to God. Through the Holy Rosary Mary brings us closer to Jesus. Also, take time to practice the four core habits of the interior life of prayer (ARRR): Acknowledge (inside oneself: thoughts, feelings, desires), Relate what is in the soul to God; Receive from God what He wills to communicate; Respond to what God shares with you.

6. Pray the Stations of the Cross in the Church or at home. Our Lord Jesus desires love from our hearts. Meditating on His Passion is a good way to love Him! He is consoled by this practice.

7. Fast from not only food, but anything that takes one away from awareness of God’s loving presence. Is it too much ‘facebook’, internet, television, or video games? Is it a habit of negativity or a critical tongue? Whatever tends to take your attention off of God during the day, try to fast from it.

8. Give alms or tithe. The ancient practice sustains the Church and helps those who have less than we do. It also expands our souls to love God and our neighbor more. The sacrifice of alms giving helps us become more like God, who has given us all good things in life, including our time, talents and financial resources!

9. Apologize to someone you have offended and forgive the faults

of others. Who needs to hear you say that you are sorry for what you have done or said? Think it through and really mean it from your heart when you apologize. Forgive grudges you have held onto. Let go of negative feelings. Forgive and let go of the debt of the lack of charity in any relationships.

10. Volunteer for God. What are you doing to build up the Kingdom of God? God delights in our effort to work with Him to build up His Church on earth. Volunteer to work for the salvation of souls! If you want know ways to get involved, ask your pastor!

11. Read a good book. Our minds and hearts need to be nourished with Love and Truth, who is God. Find a great Catholic spiritual book and enjoy it. Some suggestions: The Diary of St. Faustina; The Story of a Soul; The Sanctifier; The Miracle of the Mountain; True Devotion to the Virgin Mary.

Let us try some or even all of these 10 suggestions and then have the best Lent ever!

Through the intercession of the Holy Family: Jesus, Mary and Joseph, St. Michael and St. Paul, may our good Lord bless our parishes, our Archdiocese, and the whole Church!

In Christ through Mary,

Fr. Kasel


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